We often find ourselves asking questions about things that are still never fully understood. Despite all of the quarreling, and objections, we end up either still confused or settling for our own bias judgement. Usually from experience or through stereotypes enforced by the media. The more we analyze human behavior and the reason why we do the things we do, there will come more understanding. So hopefully, for men and women, the knowledge of why we react the way we do can help us interact and create more balance in relationships.
Why are women so crazy? I’m sure every woman has been called crazy before. But why? It isn’t something women should take literally, well, most times. We all know how moody women can be, but having a logical answer to why is more complicated to describe. I may never fully understand women, but I can naturally find ways to cope with their nature. Men, and their lack of motivation when it comes to expressing themselves can cause frustration for women. I can even attest to this myself, though I can’t speak for all men, I don’t find myself needing to discuss everything that makes me feel bad or even good. Some say that habitual behavior is stimulated by a mindset pushed by society. That type of behavior that makes me more manly. So if it is ego attached to why we deep down don’t want to express ourselves, that is a problem. At the same time, as much as women do love a man who wants to “talk it out” there is a such thing as being too sensitive. There is also something attractive about her man not being fazed by encounters that may have her overreacting. Obviously balance is an essential quality of a man making a woman happy. Bottom line, men feel the same emotions that women feel, but immediately expressing these feelings isn’t always our first instinct.
Oxytocin is considered one of the most amazing molecules in the world. It’s a big part of women behavior and the way they function or perceive specific situations the way they do. Though it is produced in both men and women, women produce more of it. It is described in many ways, but your woman will never leave you, if you know how to make her happy. You can talk about size, financial status, reputation, or even her preferred type. Women just want to be happy, and see the effort being put in to make that happen. Women are very observant, and little things like hugs, talking it out, showing affection, and listening mean a lot to a woman. It’s all about how you are making her feel. That level of excitement and feeling women are chasing is something usually in the form of oxytocin, which only makes them want to give even more love to you. Oxytocin is released during sex, hugs, or any act of someone showing trust in you. So, the more you love your woman, and show effort, it will cause brain change, and the release of love drugs like dopamine, and oxytocin, this is what creates that mutual happiness and balance.
Women aren’t crazy, they are simply reacting to the way they feel. More often then not it can be the reason behind multiple mood swings. One minute they may feel bad, then good. As a man, patience and having the ability to keep her levelheaded by listening and talking rationally to her will always help. And, well, sex has also been seen as a key source to a consistent connection. Keeping women happy can be a challenge, but the love that will be received from your effort will always be worth it.